
There is nothing quite like the thrill of grilling lobster tails with a generous baste of zesty cowboy butter. The combination of sweet lobster and a punchy butter sauce makes even ordinary evenings feel like a celebration. This dish is my go-to when I want to wow a crowd or mark a special day with something unforgettable.
The first time I served cowboy butter lobster tails, the buttery aroma got everyone waiting around the grill with their plates. Now it is the one recipe friends always ask for when grilling season starts.
Ingredients
- Lobster tails: Choose tails that look plump and are bright white without gray spots as this means they are fresh and sweet
- Unsalted butter: Quality butter makes a difference for a luscious sauce so I use a European-style butter when possible
- Fresh garlic: The base of big flavor sharp and savory
- Lemon juice: Adds tang and brightness choose a lemon that feels heavy for its size and has smooth skin for the juiciest squeeze
- Worcestershire sauce: For a deep savory edge just a few drops wake up the sauce
- Dijon mustard: Brings gentle tang and complexity creamy Dijon is best for blending into butter
- Smoked paprika: Infuses the butter with a subtle smokiness look for a bold red color for the best flavor
- Red pepper flakes: For the perfect touch of heat use more or less depending on your spice level
- Fresh parsley: Bright and herbaceous select vibrant green leaves and avoid wilted bunches
- Fresh chives: Mild onion flavor to round things out snip with sharp scissors and use the green tops
- Salt and pepper: To season and heighten every other flavor
- Lemon wedges for serving: Juicy wedges add a refreshing finish at the table
Instructions
- Prepare the Grill:
- Get your grill roaring hot over medium-high heat. Clean the grates well then brush lightly with oil to stop sticking. High heat gives you a beautiful char and quick cook.
- Make the Cowboy Butter Sauce:
- Melt the butter completely then mix in freshly minced garlic a big squeeze of lemon Dijon mustard Worcestershire smoked paprika red pepper flakes chopped parsley chives salt and pepper. Stir until everything becomes a silky mixture. Tasting now helps you adjust lemon or spice to preference.
- Brush and Season the Lobster Tails:
- Lay your split lobster tails on a tray and generously brush each flesh side with the cowboy butter sauce. Make sure you get the sauce into every fold. Save half of the sauce for later drizzling.
- Grill Flesh-Side Down:
- Place the lobster tails flesh-side down right over the hottest part of the grill. Let them cook undisturbed for five to six minutes so the meat gets golden grill marks and some smoky flavor.
- Flip and Finish Cooking:
- Carefully flip the tails shell side down. Grill another three to four minutes until the lobster meat turns opaque and just firms up. Watch closely to avoid overcooking as lobster turns tough quickly.
- Serve with More Sauce and Lemon:
- Once done transfer the tails to a platter. Generously drizzle with the rest of the cowboy butter. Add a pile of fresh lemon wedges for squeezing at the table. Grab extra napkins for buttery fingers.

When my kids first helped me brush the sauce onto the lobster they giggled at how much flavor you could cram into such a short cooking time. My absolute favorite part is always the first buttery bite as soon as the tails come off the grill.
Storage Tips
Leftover cooked lobster tails stay best wrapped tight and refrigerated for up to two days. Be sure to cool them quickly after serving. I like to remove the meat from the shells and store with any extra sauce for easy reheating. A splash of extra melted butter brings it all back to life in a skillet or microwave.
Ingredient Substitutions
If you cannot find fresh lobster tails try this recipe with large shrimp or langostino. For a different kick swap smoked paprika for hot paprika or chili powder. Fresh tarragon or dill also make great substitutes for parsley or chives if that is what you have. Those flavors will change the character but still taste fantastic.
Serving Suggestions
Serve these tails with grilled asparagus simple herby potatoes or a summery salad. For dinner parties I scatter extra herbs on the platter and let folks build their own bites with extra lemon. Warm crusty bread for mopping up the sauce is never a bad idea either.
Cultural Context
Grilled lobster is a classic showpiece in New England and cowboy butter sauces are rooted in steakhouse traditions. Combining the two bridges coastal comfort with backyard barbecue. It is both luxurious and unfussy which is exactly how I want to eat in the summer.

This recipe is a summer showstopper that is easier than you think. Make it once and you will crave it every grilling season.
Frequently Asked Questions
- → How do I know when lobster is done?
- Lobster meat should be opaque white with no translucent gray areas and should easily pull away from the shell.
- → Can I make this without a grill?
- Yes! You can broil the lobster tails in your oven for similar results, about 4-5 minutes per side.
- → How do I split lobster tails?
- Use kitchen shears to cut through the top shell lengthwise, then slice through the meat, keeping the tail fin intact.
- → Can I make the sauce ahead?
- Yes, make the cowboy butter up to 3 days ahead. Just reheat gently before using.
- → What sides go well with this?
- Try grilled asparagus, cauliflower rice, or a fresh green salad to keep it low-carb.